On Friday, as I was getting dressed, I decided to try on my “goal” trousers. This is a pair of jeans, my wife bought me a year ago. I don’t know what she was thinking. Maybe she made a mistake. Maybe the place she bought them made a mistake, but I couldn’t even get close to getting them on. When I looked at the size, they said 40. Now I know that probably sounds to you like the size of a parachute, but at the time I wore a 48. If they were a relaxed fit, possibly a 46, but 40 was a size I hadn’t worn since the first year we were married, which was 1997.
I have tried them on a couple times, since, but on Friday, I slipped them on, and they buttoned right up. They are not tight. They fit comfortably. I have gone from a size 48 down to a size 40 in 2020. So that’s one bit of good news during this year from H E double hockey stick.
My wife has also dropped several dress and trouser sizes. She is looking fabulous. I think she weighs less than she did when we got married. If not, she’s extremely close.
I tell you all this to encourage you. Find a program that fits your lifestyle. I watched a video yesterday by a guy in California who switched to a Paleo diet, and not only lost weight, but he healed up several long term health problems. I’ve read the same results from people who’ve gone on the Mediterranean diet. The secret is not necessarily the eating plan itself. It’s finding one that fits your lifestyle and personality. For us it has been Keto/South Beach.
I say both, because the two diets are so similar now, that they are virtually the same thing. South beach does allow a few more carbs, which I’ve had to move to because of certain digestive challenges I’ve had due to my medication. Perhaps I should do a post about that.
I want to repeat my primary message, though. The first thing is, you absolutely must eliminate sugar from your diet. Stop fighting me. Just do it. Then start getting rid of processed wheat flour. White flour and white sugar are, and I know I use this word a lot, but here I go again, they are POISON. They are addictive and will destroy your body, one bite at a time.
The next thing you need to know is, weight loss is based on calories. Yes, I know that’s old school, but it’s true. When you first start Keto, calories aren’t a big deal. You are training your body to feed off of fat rather than carbohydrates. That alone will be enough to get your weight falling off. You feel full, and you will love all the fat and protein and delicious veggies. You will, however, reach a time when you have to start paying attention to calories.
Some people do this by serving sizes. My wife does that. She only uses a small dessert plate as her dinner plate. That works great for her. I need a big plate because I’m a messy eater. Some people do it by measuring their food. My favorite You Tube host, Ally McWowie, measures everything carefully. She has done it for years now. She lost like 150 or 170 lbs doing that. She’s worth paying attention to.
Some people work out so hard that it doesn’t really matter. They burn everything off anyway. I’m 64, I’m going to burn more calories changing clothes than I can motivate myself to burn in the gym.
I actually track calories. When I first started, I tracked only carbs. I focused on 20 carbs a day. I wrote down everything that entered my gullet. For a while that was all I needed to do. Then I developed digestive problems. I will tell you about that next week. So I raised my carb limit to 50 carbs, and started tracking my calories. I set my goal at 1900 calories a day. On days when I stay under 20 carbs, which is most days, I can go over. Even 2100 calories will be ok.
Some days, like days I have to eat oatmeal, I watch my calories very carefully. I will try and keep them closer to 1500 those days.
For most people Keto is not hard. You track your carbs. I rarely track my fat and protein. I don’t worry about my minimums and maximums. I know some purists eyes will explode over that. It’s lazy Keto, and it works for me. But I track my calories. If I go over, I don’t panic. I’m changing my life, I’m not a slave to the numbers.
What are your secrets? What works for you? What have been your challenges? I’m curious. I can’t understand why more people don’t try Keto. But that’s because it fits my lifestyle perfectly. It fits the way I garden, and the vegetables I love most.